Are You a 'Homewrecker'?

No, not that kind of homewrecker, a "homewrecker," in the sense that you admittedly let it get out of hand.
Would you describe your place as Neat, Tidy or an admitted Mess?
These are busy times, and more and more people are letting the most basic of chores slip through the cracks: dishes piling up in the kitchen sink, a hamper that runneth over with dingy-smelling dirty clothes, dust that has settled on objects about the room so thick that you could write on them.
Are items strawn about the place? (In the back of your head you can hear your Mom's "pigsty" commments).
Are we as a society that busy?
Is your house literally wrecked? And why?

Disrespectful or Just Doing Her Thing?

It never fails: Wifey and I are chillin' in a public place, perhaps just watching the stars and a half-dressed woman appears out of nowhere. Either her clothes are skin-tight or her clothes are not covering the essentials, either way it's a crazy look. My wife sometimes feels disrespected, but i suspect that's the jealously in her. More importantly, I feel disrespected, as if I would be lured by such a cheap bait. But, shouldn't the girl feel disrepected? Her whole outfit is dictating the treatment she will receive. Is that fair? To her? I don't know, but it is a conscious choice. I think. What do you think?