When He Refuses to Use It

You're feeling this guy and he is all things awesome in several ways, but there's just one caveat that he insists on doing: Doing it. In the sack. Bareback.
Now, certainly in its place, bare is fair, but today with women and men jumping fences quicker than a dog with mange and diseases flying all through the air nstuff? With pestilence at an all-time high and health care at a crisis, is it wise?
What to do when he refuses to wrap it up?
Well, some may feel that they owe a long, drawn-out explanation that delves into "beliefs" and "theorys" and "how I waa raised" and all that.
And to all that, i say, phooey!
Get ghost. Tell him despite the good and true "feeling" i gives and all that, you're quite comfortable living life in good health.
This is not to say that he may be carrying (well, he might, but so may you) but the fact of the matter is, both of you should be protected from each other.
Anything else, is just uncivilized.

'Bug Chasers' still out to contract AIDs, HIV

With all the awareness about World AIDs Day and HIV prevention efforts, we think it's prudent to also spotlight a growing group that continue to go against the grain: Bug chasers.
Bug chasers are HIV negative gay men who try to contract HIV and AIDs by having sex with HIV positive men.
They often throw "conversion parties" and seek to hook up with carriers ("gift givers") that would help them to contract the disease.
Many people interviewed about why they would want such a dreadful disease cite the support and sympathy among the gay community for HIV-positive people.
All of this behavior flies in the face of those who put forth great effort to get the disease under control and stem its spread. And there is a big effort among gays against bugchasing, but the issue remains.
Many of them share the sentiment of "Carlos" who was quoted saying: "I know what the risks are, and I know that putting myself in this situation is like putting a gun to my head," in a 3Rolling Stone article in 200. Despite the risks, Carlos said, "But I think it turns the other guy on to know that I'm negative and that they're bringing me into the brotherhood. That gets me off, too."
It will get him off alright, off the planet.

Who is Dambisa Moyo?

This chick with more than a passing resemblance to Michelle Williams of Destiny's Child and Venus Williams is in the New York Times talking major trash about American celebrities who stretch their faces on big screens to wail for Africa. She's from Zambia with degrees from Harvard and Oxford, And she may have a point. Check out her tirade here.