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Do You Miss Your Partner in Crime?

Remember those days in high school when it was you and your BFF against the world? Life was a lot simpler back then; responsibilities have a way of melting the sheen off a person, you know? But back in the day you could afford to mess up, to act a fool, and it wasn't a fatal mistake.
You and your girl were trump tight; on some Thelma and Louise type stuff.
Face it, the streets have always been bad, but it's just that now they're deadly.
As you grow older, relationships change, people too, but that doesn't throw shade on what was. This post is about the past. Not what could have been. What was.

Do You tell your girl EVERYTHING?

Friends are hard to find, and harder to keep, says an old proverb. But it's especially true in these days of backbiting, double crossing, and Hatorade.
Our close associates are a part of us: They know us and share common experiences that draw us closer to them. But is there a limit?
Does your BBF know all your business?
Many women will tell their friends how their man likes it in bed and his fave position and all that, oblivious to the fact that such knowledge may breed covetousness or straight jealousy.
In this day and age of the Internet, people know enough about you just by seeing a username or bio. To those people that you actually know, are you inclined to keep no secrets?

The Visible Lover Phenomenon: Hearting Amber Rose

You'd be hard-pressed to find a celebrity hotter than Amber Rose right now.
Usher, yeah, he's pretty hot right now, due to his filing for divorce, but that's falling by the wayside.
RiRi? She's falling back down to normalcy now, a 6 on our 10-point attention barometer.
Madonna? Old news?
But Amber Rose, famous for ... exactly what again? I mean what did she have something, anything going on that would thrust her into the national spotlight?
Quite like this?
(Crickets)
Right, that's the point. I mean, we heart her with her buzzcut and all. But she's simply the Visible Lover of Kanye West, the most highly public, attention-loving, grandoise entertainer alive today.

Why is Amber Rose famous? Call it the V.L.P: Visible Lover Phenomenon.
People just love to know who celebrities are sleeping with.
There have been other VLPs: Stedman Graham comes to mind; Pharrell used to sport "Vashtie" everywhere he went a few years ago. But England follows them way more than the States.
But celebrities no doubt should be able to do what they want, but lovers should also be able to decide if they want to be apart of the VLP as well.
In the NBA, many don't.
But VLP is a blessing and curse, just ask other celebrities.
The only thing they have in the end ... is a VH1 reality show.

The More BFFs = More Money

According to a recent study, what's in your bank account is directly related to how many friends you have.
(No, it doesn't mean having one BFF means you have $1).
The study, conducted over 35 years among 10,000 students in the United States, suggests the wealthiest people are those that had the most friends at school. Each subsequent schoolfriend added 2% to the salary.
By "friend" it doesn't mean how many people you hang out with, but rather the number of people in your social circle. This is where Facebook and Myspace come into play: Yep, could be the in the 100s.
If you've got a gang of friends on social networking sites then technically you could be on your way to a whole lot of moolah!

BFFs: Why Is It So Hard For Girlfriends to Get Along?

Imagine two homegirls both get cast in a meteoric TV sitcom that will change television as you know: Now multiply that by 100.
That is what Tichina Arnold and BFF Tisha Campbell-Martin experienced in the early 1990s as part of the cast of "Martin," comedian Martin Lawrence's kick-door into television.
The friendship that they had on show translated to real life.
They really were and are friends.
And that's a rarity today, because so many women have said the following sentiment: "I don't have alot of girlfriends. They're too messy" or "too jealous," or my favorite, "just too much drama."
Mind you, we're not talking teenagers here, which means that as an adult your chances of even meeting new people let alone friends diminishes gradually as you become attached to a certain routine of life.
I guess the question is:
Do sisters be hating like that?
Why?