In the video, the woman is a doting servant: Lips perched to please, body eager to pounce on the male. All he has to do is mount up. No words, except the obligatory cuss word to symbolize their ecstacy.
Porn makes it look so easy. Too easy. And it teaches the man a lackadaisical, one-dimensional approach to lovemaking. If you can call what porn incites lovemaking.
On screen the actress moans and screams at the pain as if inviting more of it.
But in the real world, can a man imitate what is essentially an act? Unbridled, no-holds-barred sex. In an instant.
No cuddling, no foreplay. No love. Just hard, flesh-pounding sex.
If a man brings that into the bedroom. Is he hurting or harming the relationship?
3 comments:
Being a woman,I rather enjoy porn with my guy (though I know many who dont). For me personally, it not only serves as a method of turning me on but as useful tool to get new ideas. My guy should know the difference between what he sees on screen and how he should perform in reality. My guy should know me. And if foreplay cuddling, etc., are all a part of our routine love-making, popping a flick in shouldnt change that.
March 23, 2009 at 10:28 AMPorn could hurt a relatoinship because it desensitizes the act, which is not at all how it supposed to be in real life. Sometimes people have trouble knowing the difference.
April 1, 2009 at 3:15 PMPorn is like a drug, it take more and more to get off. It always trends to the deeping of pervert for the desired affect. It makes women obects of pleasure and not people of value. Porn reduce the act of love and increase pressure on women to look a certain way. It reduce the window of what is acceptabe appearence for a woman and any thing outside that window is disposable. Porn ruins lives!
August 14, 2009 at 8:02 AMPost a Comment